What Do You Want for Christmas?

This day is full of a lot of emotions. The joy of being with family. The excitement of baby’s first Christmas. The anticipation of being with those you love. The loss of a family member or friend this past year. The loneliness of what’s missing. The relational strife that still exists.

What do you want for Christmas? Is it the gift you’ve been waiting for all year? Is it good health? Is it a partner to do life with? Is it peace in your heart? Is it having the perfect house, perfect location, perfect job, or perfect family?

When it comes to Christmas, I’ve felt some of these same feelings. Joy. Sadness. Anticipation. Loneliness. Strife. Yet, with all these things we humanly “hope” for, none meet the satisfaction, hope, and peace that Jesus brings.

To the one who spends one more Christmas alone without a partner, God says “The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and they will call him Immanuel.” (which means ‘God with us.’) Matthew 1:23

To the one who can’t seem to find peace, God says “You will keep in perfect peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you.” Isaiah 26:3

To the one who needs guidance and help, God says “I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go, I will counsel you with my loving eye on you.” Psalm 32:8

To the one who grieves, Jesus says “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world, you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” John 16:33

To the one who struggles with relational strife at the holidays, Jesus says “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” Psalm 34:18

To the one who questions how God would allow such pain and suffering in this world, God says “But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary; they will walk and not be faint.” Isaiah 40:31

To the one who just needs a huge dose of encouragement and help, Jesus says “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.” Matthew 11:28-29

To the one who wonders if he’ll ever get life together, God says “The Lord makes firm the steps of the one who delights in him; though he may stumble, he will not fail, for the Lord upholds him with his hand.” Psalm 37:23-24

To the one who feels abandoned or rejected, God says “The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.” Deuteronomy 31:8

This Jesus, who was born this day, wants us desperately and loves us like crazy! He satisfies our deepest needs and is the best gift ever. All I want for Christmas is a God like this. Merry Christmas!

One of my favorite songs at Christmas..All is well with Michael W. Smith and Carrie Underwood: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cG6fQmh9F_Q

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

White Elephant Fun

White Elephant gift exchanges bring out the best and worst in me. I become quite animated throughout the exchange, scheming as much as possible to get the best gift ever. I love stealing. I love taking the best gift from a poor soul who loved the gift immensely. It’s totally fun to go against my character and play the stealth villain at these gatherings. I usually come away with something pretty fun and exciting because I know how to play these things.

We have two parties coming up this week and I’m ready. I’ve done due diligence to get fun, creative white elephant gifts that people would like, but extremely funny at the same time.

As I was preparing for these parties, I realized I knew nothing about the origins of this fantastic Christmas activity. I looked up where this ‘White Elephant idea’ came from. According to legend, it was a king of Siam (now Thailand) who came up with the brilliant scheme of giving actual white elephants to his most annoying, obnoxious courtiers as revenge. It was the perfect good-news/bad-news gift. Nowadays, the guiding principle in the exchange is that you give an impractical gift, maybe wanted, maybe unwanted, and often humorous. My going-in strategy: Don’t come to a White Elephant exchange looking to gain something valuable but do everything you can to GET something valuable!

As much as I love these White Elephant gatherings, there’s a reality that is true for all gift exchanges. A gift is only as valuable as it is important to the person who receives it. I know I’ve gotten some gifts that I have no interest in and they eventually ended up at Goodwill.

Not true with God and his gift-giving! No one can ever give another person the BEST gift. The PERFECT gift. The most VALUABLE gift. That gift is God’s Son, Jesus Christ. Each of us must decide whether we will unwrap and receive that gift. This gift has more value than we’ll ever imagine! 

God knew that mankind could never be good enough or righteous enough on their own to be joined to Himself. So, He sent His Son, as the perfect gift, given to everyone who believes in Him. When you receive this gift, you get it FOREVER. You never earn or pay for it. You never get it stolen. You never have to turn it back in. The gift of God was the most sacrificial thing He could give.

Even though I love, love, love the White Elephant parties, they're not the most important thing to me. I get home and toss my new White Elephant treasure somewhere, soon to be forgotten. Often, I use it as my White Elephant gift for the next party.

The older I get, the more I realize that stuff doesn’t matter. All this stuff will pass away. Life is about knowing God and receiving Jesus, the greatest gift ever. Don’t pass on this gift.

“Thanks be to God for His indescribable gift!” 2 Corinthians 9:15

“For by grace you have been saved through faith; and that not of yourselves, it is the gift of God.” Ephesians 2:8

Take a listen to this beautiful song by Shawner Belt Edwards: He is the Gift: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jqzpEJuNIBk

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

God's Favor

I think there’s something human and very natural in us that longs to be wanted, accepted, and loved. Who doesn’t want to be wanted? Who doesn’t want a deeper connection with people? Who doesn’t want to be validated by a spouse, children, co-workers, boss, someone we’re dating, our parents, or even our adult kids?

We invest a lot of our mental capacities in looking for favor. The favor of people, as good as it can sometimes feel, will never be enough. How many of us have learned that simple truth?

In the Christmas story in the Bible, we see another type of favor. God’s favor. Luke 2:13-14, says “Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God, and saying, “Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom God’s favor rests.”  The announcement was given “Peace to those on whom God’s favor rests.”

In the attached song “Blessings”, there is a line that says, “May His favor be upon you.” Let’s consider the word “favor”. In the Bible, we can define favor as “gaining approval, acceptance, or special benefits.” It can be described as God’s divine kindness….an act of true compassion on the part of God Himself toward needy and undeserving recipients. (What is God’s Favor? Christianity.com)

God, sending Jesus to this earth in human form was God’s greatest act of favor, the gift of eternal life. It is only by accepting Jesus that we can receive His grace and live for the Lord in this dark world. This is clearly  explained in Ephesians 2:8-9 “For by grace you have been saved through faith, and that not of yourselves; it is the gift of God, not of works, lest anyone should boast.”

So, here’s what I know to be true. I am someone upon whom God’s favor permanently rests. Why? It’s not because I’m “good enough” or “wanted enough” or “special enough.” I’m not. I have a fairly good idea of what it means not to be wanted.

It is simply because years ago, as a senior in high school, I visited a church on a Sunday night hoping to meet up with a guy. Instead, I heard the gospel message and met up with Jesus. I realized I was a sinner and in need of a Savior. It’s because of that decision long ago, that I know that I know that I know I have God’s favor. It has nothing to do with being a “semi-good” person as some might think, but everything to do with Christ in my life.

Maybe it’s time to let go of trying to be all things to everyone in our relationships. What if we didn’t care one little ounce what people said or thought about us on social media or in "real” life? What if we stopped investing so much energy hoping to be seen and known and appreciated? The favor of people will never be enough, but the favor of God will be more than enough.

As you consider God’s favor, take a moment to meditate and worship to the song, The Blessing, by Cody Carnes, Elevation Worship, and Kari Jobe: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Zp6aygmvzM4

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

The Uncomfortable of Christmas

Every December, we come face to face with the reality that Christmas is coming. For some, that sets off immediate alarms that “I have so much to do before Christmas!” For others, the reality of Christmas reminds us of what we lack, albeit singleness, the loss of a loved one, or sadness that it’s not the way it’s supposed to be this year. For some, we’re wondering how to mingle joy with the sorrows and atrocities we see in the world today. I also think some have a “Bah humbug!” attitude either because they’re not into “religion” or they just don’t like dealing with all the talk of Christmas.

I sense our current or past circumstances can cloud the reality of Christmas. We can avoid Christ in Christmas because we are simply not comfortable with Christ. Long ago or more recently, we decided He’s not for us. We’ve made up our mind and there’s no swaying us. For others, the challenging circumstances of sickness, loss, loneliness, financial woes, or other lack have made the true meaning of Christmas a blur. All we see is our circumstances in front of us.

In Isaiah 9:6-7, the prophet Isaiah broadens our view of the Messiah: “For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Of the greatness of his government and peace, there will be no end. He will reign on David’s throne and over his kingdom, establishing and upholding it with justice and righteousness, from that time on and forever. The zeal of the Lord Almighty will accomplish this.”

Consider the key words “to us a child is born, to us a son is given.” Even though these events took place thousands of years ago (in Isaiah and the gospels) when a person or nation comes in contact with the Lord, that person is the recipient for the first time of a wonderful gift. A Son is given. It’s real. It’s not fake. It’s not far out.  He is “God with us” and able to strengthen us, help us, guide us, meet our needs, and do day-to-day life with us. He shows us secrets about ourselves and counsels and guides us in our heartaches and struggles. He is all-powerful and Mighty and able to do what we can’t even comprehend. He is Prince of Peace, and able to give us supernatural peace in times of uncertainty and trials.

This is Immanuel, “God with us.” Isaiah’s Christmas prophecy promises hope through the promise of a child to be born. God chose to come into the world uniquely and humbly. Jesus was not what people anticipated. Many questioned Him. Many whispered about Him. Many rejected Him. Many turned their backs on Him.

Jesus didn’t fit the picture of who people thought He would be. Because of that people rejected Him. People still reject Him today. When God doesn’t do what we think He should do OR when He didn’t do what we thought He should have done, we reject Him too. 

Will you let go of the way you want Jesus to be? Will you ponder these words in Isaiah 9:6-7 and ask God to reveal Himself to You in a new way?  Will you let go of your expectations and demands of God? Will you invite God into your Christmas this year and ask Him to be real to You?

Take a listen: Emmanuel God With Us (Chris Tomlin) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mt_xfOutfSQ

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

What's in Your Christmas?

In college, quite a few of my roommates decided it’d be fun to get a job at a disco. Dixie Electric Company, the famous Ohio disco at the time, was a ton of fun to work at. During that era, the amazing song, Stayin' Alive came out. Whenever it came on, we’d go crazy and find a way to get on the dance floor.

A few years later, John Travolta created famous dance moves to Stayin' Alive in the movie, Saturday Night Fever. Who didn’t try to mimic his dance moves? It was years later, on a bicycle ride up the coast of California, where I got to meet Mr. Travolta in person in a Carmel restaurant. A moment for this disco-loving gal.

Now, Travolta is back with another rendition of Stayin Alive for Christmas. He’s “older” now, but he hides his hair color too. He’s a disco-dancing Santa in Capital One’s Holiday commercial. It’s cute, it’s fun and it has several memorable moments of the classic film.

In the commercial, wherever Travolta Claus goes, he spreads cheer, with help from a can of “glitter paint” and his Capitol One Quicksilver card. The big question at the end of the commercial is Travolta Claus asking, “What’s in your wallet?”

Gosh, I love that commercial because of the music that brings back fantastic memories. In terms of getting me ready for Christmas, not so much. Maybe the question I would have is “What’s in your Christmas?”

What’s in your Christmas this year? In just a few days, it will be December 1. Have you thoughtfully considered how you’d like to approach the Christmas holiday? Here are some questions that I ponder: How will I try to keep the main thing (Christ) the main thing this holiday season? How can I encourage, support, and pray for those who might struggle this Christmas? How can I maintain a spirit of peace amidst the busyness of the season? What hopes and dreams might Jesus (The Wonderful Counselor) have for me? What might my response be this Christmas to the baby in the manger? 

I find it helpful to ponder, reflect, and consider why I celebrate Christmas. It’s so easy to avoid the real reason for the season, Jesus. Will you take the time to do so this season? What’s in your Christmas?

"For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on His shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Of the greatness of his government and peace there will be no end." Isaiah 9:6-7

Take a listen as you prepare for this Christmas season: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2FvUTXcRwvo

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

Thanksgiving Love

Thanksgiving stirs up all kinds of emotions. For the widower, it’s a holiday without the one they love. For the single person, it’s joining in with another family. For the family with relational strife, it’s coming together wishing they weren’t together. For others, it's a beautiful gathering with those in our lives we love.

I’m convinced that our God can help us with all the “feels” and “fears’ that the holidays conjure up. I believe God truly helps us give “love” even though we may not feel it in return. God would not command us to do what we are incapable of doing. John 15:12-13 says “My command is this: Love each other as I have loved you. Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends.” Loving others pleases our God. Loving others is intentional.

As you approach Thanksgiving this week, maybe consider a few things:

Pray about the holiday gathering: Pray for those that you will be with on Thanksgiving. Ask God to show you ways that you can intentionally love them. Pray for each person coming that THEY would have a joy-filled holiday. Pray for all the preparations and that we’d be more focused on the people than the perfection of the table or food. Pray for opportunities to encourage others. Everyone has their issues and holidays tend to magnify those issues. Don’t allow your opinions, albeit politics or anything else, to take over. We need God’s help to love like He loves.

Love is intentional: I’ve been to Thanksgiving meals where I’m not sure I “felt” like I had much to give. Thankfully, God enables us to love even when we may not feel like loving. There is not one of us that are great at loving in our human nature. We all botch it. But love comes from the Holy Spirit when we walk with God. God can help us love even when we don’t feel like loving. Who is that EGR (Extra Grace Required) person that you need God’s help in loving?

Model Jesus’ love- This verse resonates with what I desire for not just Thanksgiving, but a way of life. Romans 12:10, 18 says “Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves…. if it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.” Have you ever been at a gathering where everyone is just talking about themselves and talking over everyone else? It’s sure is common for us to want to focus on ourselves, isn’t it? Jesus models the love found in Romans 12:10, 18 and requires conscious choices, conscious actions, and even sacrifices in our relationships. How might God be calling you to model Jesus’ love during the holidays?

A Gospel Mindset- We were born spiritually dead, through the failure of the first Adam. But because of Christ, we can be made alive and live in Jesus’ forgiveness and righteousness. In my flesh, I am a mess. But, because of my relationship with God and the Holy Spirit in me, He can help me be more others-centered, loving, and caring through my union with Christ. Nothing will ever separate me from his love. (Romans 8:31-35) Having a gospel mindset helps me when I’m in challenging situations. God is near. He is present and He gives me all I need to walk with love and peace.

I have a feeling every one of us can give more love this Thanksgiving, no matter what our circumstances are. I pray that all of us can walk in love, as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us, a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God. (Ephesians 4:30-5:2) Happy Thanksgiving!

Check out this song, Love One Another, by Newsboys! What a great challenge for us! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VAFMGRMhFsM

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

Satisfied

I don’t like it when God’s not doing His job. You know, fixing the problems of this world. Keeping cancer away from precious people. Helping cure anxious hearts. Dealing with the burdens we carry.

You and I have probably eyed a few job descriptions throughout our lives. We get what we’re supposed to do in our jobs because it’s laid out for us. But have you ever thought about God’s job description? Maybe we’re not so acquainted with what God’s work is every day.

Check out a story in the Bible where people could have wondered whether Jesus would show up. It’s found in John 6:1-14. Jesus was on a mountainside and looked up to see a great crowd coming to him. Jesus’ first question was to Philip “Where shall we buy bread for these people to eat?” (vs. 5) Interesting, right, because Jesus already had in mind a plan! Philip complained that eight months' wages wouldn’t buy enough bread for each one to have a bite. Andrew gave his input and showed Jesus a boy who had 5 small barley loaves and two small fish, while at the same time questioning how far that would go. Everyone had their solution to dealing with the problem.

Then Jesus took over. He had the people sit down, all five thousand of them. He then took the loaves, gave thanks, and distributed them to those who were seated. They ate as much as they wanted. He did the same with the fish. When everyone had enough to eat, he asked the disciples to gather the leftovers. They filled 12 baskets with the pieces of leftovers!

The feeding of the 5000 is more than just a story. It speaks to the rule of God over time, history, and every event in the world today. Even in this story, the crowd, after seeing Jesus’ miracle, wanted to make Jesus King. They wanted a king on THEIR terms that would satisfy THEIR needs and desires. I would venture to see that we do this too! We make up our job description for God, which is basically to come through for us when we need Him to.

God is sovereign over this whole world, which means that He alone controls everything. When I study the sovereignty of God, it calms my fears. I realize I don’t have to try to control so much of my life! He controls and guides everything for His glory and good. I don’t have to figure things out or maneuver outcomes. Instead, I go to Jesus in prayer and ask for His help in all the things that concern me and those I care for. I can find true “rest” in His sovereignty, even when I don’t understand or like the outcome.

The people in this story needed food, and Jesus provided it in abundance. What is your greatest need? God invites us to slow down, read His Word, and look to Jesus. He is the one to calm our fears and forgive our sins. Jesus can be trusted completely with all our needs. He alone satisfies. 

The bottom line is that we need God! (Same God by Elevation Worship, Take a listen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LawxIZE9ePE

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

Interruptions

My husband is a Texas Tech grad, although it’s his wife who keeps him informed on Texas Tech sports. This week, Tech played TCU and they won, but the real story is who showed up at the game. Not someone famous or even a former quarterback Patrick Mahomes. It was a POSSUM who showed up and ran across the field, interrupting the play of the game.

The fans got involved too! It was between the first and second quarter of the game, that the possum came running across the field on the 10-yard line. The fans cheered the possum on! Finally, someone who appeared to be from animal control caught it with a snare pole. Viral videos of the possum show him being dragged off the field near the sideline.

Check it the possum of the week: https://www.foxsports.com/watch/fmc-njk964vi1y8kz10o 

Funny how something so small as a possum can interrupt a college football game and make the news. Yet, how do we respond when silly little things disrupt our plans?  Even this week, we weren’t prepared for getting stuck in traffic due to a train or coming down with the respiratory flu. We’re never quite ready for them. How we respond to them matters.

Expect interruptions: I assume that Texas Tech football must have been prepared for something like this to happen since they caught the possum quickly. As adults, we know that these disruptions happen. We have a choice in not throwing a tantrum or pity party. What I’ve learned is that God uses these types of interruptions to help me rely on God and become more like Christ. When I’m sitting in traffic trying to make a dinner reservation, can I be okay?  God’s in control of all the details of my life, can I trust Him with this? Yes.

Gain perspective:  I loved how all the fans just joined in with the fun and started cheering the possum on! What a great way to turn a disruption into a bit of fun! If you walk with God, do You believe that His grace is sufficient to get us through each day? Do you believe that He is in control? Can you, in the moment, believe that Christ is enough to satisfy all your needs, even when things don’t go your way?

Life with God: I’m reminded daily that I can’t do life without God. I just can’t. Interruptions remind me that no matter how much I plan and try to control things, I’m not in charge. God is! I don’t have life figured out and just when I’m not expecting it, things can go south. It’s these challenges, that keep me running back to Jesus. I’m so thankful for his grace and forgiveness when I fail to respond to life’s frustrating events calmly.

How about you? How do you handle the interruptions that come your way? We all have them. May the Lord help us and guide us to walk through them with grace and peace.

This is one of my favorite worship songs...a contestant reminder of how I need Him to make room for God in those challenging interruptions: (Make Room, Community Music) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wrQuKK6jz-4

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

Uncertainties

I don’t like it when I don’t know what’s going to happen. I want those that I know with cancer or some other issue to be healed. I want to know that things will get better in the Middle East. I want to know that everything going on is going to be alright.

We want to know it will all be ok even when it’s not ok. The uncertainty of our times is deafening. How do we live with peace even when everything around us is uncertain?

Gosh darn, I want this life to be certain, but it’s not. But what I do know is that God has been and is always in control. Although you and I struggle in the face of uncertainty, God does not.

But how do we handle all the “what ifs?” What do we do when the worst happens? How do we have peace when the “bad situation” doesn’t change?

I find such great comfort in a familiar verse in Philippians 4:6: “Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.” This is a familiar verse to me, but I often find it hard to do. When we are anxious, our problems get bigger, and our God gets smaller. We fail to see God’s power and sovereignty over all amid what’s making us anxious.

Let’s put it in perspective…. Paul was in prison when he wrote the book of Philippians. He loved the people in Philippi and wrote to them at a time when he was suffering greatly. Paul’s goal in his letter was to encourage them to live out their faith in joy and unity.  Paul knew that true joy came through his faith in Jesus Christ, not his circumstances. He had no clue what the future held but knew the One who held the future.

Paul gives us specific guidance in handling the uncertainties of life: 1. Don’t be anxious about anything. 2. Instead, pray about everything. 3. With thanksgiving, presents with God.  As we choose to pray and tell God our needs and be thankful, our anxieties leave us, and peace enters. Here’s the deal: We can have peace EVEN when we face uncertainties and circumstances out of our control. Check out Philippians 4:7, the results of living this verse out: “And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.”
And who doesn't want the peace of God to transcend our hearts?

Can you trust God with those things we cannot control? Can you believe that God is sovereign, even if chaos is all around us? Can you trust that God’s ways are good and has a plan, even if it’s not what we would desire?

Take a listen: Firm Foundation (He Won't) by Maverick City Music. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uOP4s8fOEm0

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

Giants

Steph Curry, with the Golden State Warriors, is considered the greatest shooter in NBA history. But, when it comes to winning a jump ball against Victor Wembanyama, of the San Antonio Spurs, it’s just not going to happen. Curry, 6 foot 3 inches, amazingly showed up at the line, ready to square off against 7 foot, 4-inch Wembanyama, in a recent game. It was comical at best.

The funny thing was that Steph Curry squatted for his jump like he actually had a chance to get the ball. Comments on Twitter: “Why did Steph even try?”  “That’s funny.” “He tried!” “I love Steph’s competitive spirit!”

We all can have our own giants. They aren’t usually tall, but they have a big impact on us and rob us of our peace and joy. Have you ever considered those things that tower over your mind and really affect you? Maybe fear. Fear of what’s going to happen. Fear of what’s going on in our world. Also, doubt can be crippling, making us think we can’t do what we can do! Self-doubt affects our work, our relationships, and our abilities, paralyzing our self-esteem and self-worth. What other giants do we face? Discouragement, loneliness, temptation, hopelessness, a significant problem, jealousy, resentment, pressures, and failures, to name a few. 

Most of us have heard of the story in the Bible of David and Goliath. The story is about Goliath, a Philistine giant who was defeated by young David in a single combat. David was a young shepherd boy standing among a weak Israelite army. I can’t imagine what David must have thought when he saw how tall Goliath was! However, David didn’t seem so concerned about this “giant.” David had a sling and 5 smooth stones. He had complete trust in his God that He would help him overcome Goliath.

David told Goliath “This is the Lord’s battle, and he will give you to us!” (1 Samuel 17:47) Perhaps, we struggle with our giants and allow them to defeat us repeatedly. Do we face them in our own strength? David’s words ring true today…. Our giants are the Lord’s battle, not ours.

I think it’s important to name and deal with the giants in our lives. Would you take a moment and write down what those giants are for you? Would you pray that God will help you confront your giant and see them in a different light?  When I write these things on paper and name my giants, I then give them to the Lord. God gives me perspective as I pray about each one. Often, he shows me that it’s not so much the “giant” that is the problem, but how I’ve turned my situation into a giant.

I might note in the story of David and Goliath, that David’s confidence was not in his own ability. He knew he was no match for Goliath. David’s confidence was in God. David placed his confidence in a God who had carried him through the past and would carry him into the future. David was able to live with no doubt in his mind and no fear in his heart.

Just as David conquered his giant, we can too! Will we choose to trust and depend on the Lord in every situation we face? God is greater than any giant we will ever face.

Video of the jump ball between Curry and Wembanyama: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h2egRf5GhA4

Take a listen: Courageous by Casting Crowns, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pkM-gDcmJeM

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

Not Oblivious

My dog, Chara and I are sitting on the back porch, enjoying a Texas fall-ish day. She’s poised and ready to make a dash outside and lunge at the fence at the dog next door. Just the other cool day, my horse, Daisy, was running and bucking and frolicking around in her fenced area as if to say, “This is just the BEST day ever!”

Animals are oblivious to what took place this last week in Israel. In some ways, it would be nice to be oblivious to the horrific suffering, pain, and agony that we’ve seen displayed on social media and TV. But we’re not oblivious. We see and understand what’s going on and it leaves us sobered, saddened, and helpless.

We see the faces of war. So many stories. So many pictures.

A teenager named Matan battled Hamas with fellow soldiers when terrorists threw a grenade into their armored vehicle. Matan jumped on the grenade and saved the lives of all his friends but lost his. His last words “I tried to do everything to save the people of Israel.” Matan is a hero.

The Kutz family of five. On Saturday, they planned to fly kites in a kite festival their father Aviv organizes every year near the Gaza fence as a message of peace to their neighbors. Their charred bodies were found in the safe room of their burned-down home in Kibbutz Kfar Aza, with Aviv’s body wrapped over his family.

A video of Shani Louk, a 30-year-old German national, dancing and enjoying the Israeli techno music festival. Moments later, she was a victim of abduction during the shocking attack by Hamas militants.

I like you am heartbroken for all of the innocent lives lost in Israel and Gaza this past week. I don’t know what to do as I watch it all unfold. At the oddest times, a tear will fall on my face out of sheer sadness. But, what I do know to do, is to pray. Sometimes, all that comes out is: “Help, Lord.”  I’m glad He hears our cries. When we have no words, the Spirit takes our groans before His throne and prays what we ought. (Romans 8:26) For that, I am grateful. Other times, I just cry out “Lord, have mercy.”  

One of the most powerful things we can do is to pray. Our prayers don’t just go up to this unknown lofty cloud in the sky but make it to the throne room of God. God hears our prayers; however simple they are! He longs for us to cry out to Him from our hearts! It is powerful to pray to God who sees the things we can’t see. Even when we wonder "Where is God in all this?" please be assured that God will judge unrighteousness and evil and injustice one day. God hears the prayers of his people.

If you have no words like I do, perhaps try praying the words of Psalm 121 over all the innocent people on both sides as well as those who are living in fear or overwhelmed with grief:

"I lift up my eyes to the mountains where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth. He will not let your foot slip- he who watches over you will not slumber; indeed, he who watches over Israel will never slumber nor sleep. The Lord watches over you- the Lord is your shade at your right hand; the sun will not harm you by day, nor the moon by night. The Lord will keep you from all harm-he will watch over your life; the Lord will watch over your coming and going.” Psalm 121

Take a listen: "It is Well With My Soul (Audrey Assad) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zY5o9mP22V0

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

Groceries MIA

This week, I had a grocery faux pas. I didn’t even realize my faux pas until 3 days later. I looked everywhere for three items from my recent shop. Missing in action were my HEB chicken fajitas, asparagus, and garlic. I inspected the back of my car and the refrigerator with no sightings of the items.

Finally, I called HEB and talked to a young man named Damian. He asked me what items I was missing, and I told him. Guess what? He said, “I was there that day and remember seeing those exact items in a bag. So, of course, you can either get a refund or pick up those items and we’ll compensate you.”

I go to HEB Plus, which means this store is super big with lots of people, lots of registers, and lots of staff. I called on a Friday night and got a man who knew exactly what I had gotten and couldn’t wait to make it right and provide for me.

I got off the phone and wanted to tell the whole world how great HEB is! That was such a positive experience!

I’m reminded of how attentive our God is to all our needs. In 2 Chronicles 16:9 it says “For the eyes of the Lord run to and fro throughout the whole earth, to give strong support to those whose heart is blameless toward him.” Can you believe that God sees everything you’re going through and not just you, but EVERY person on the face of this earth? He is all-knowing. He is constantly present. He is aware of every detail of our lives. In addition, God is looking to strengthen people whose hearts are wholeheartedly trusting Him.

Did you know that God cares about everything? (even chicken fajitas, asparagus and garlic) God loves to take care of us even when we may not have even asked for help! 1 Peter 5:7 says “Cast all your anxieties on Him, because He cares for you.” He cares for you. Do you know that? He cares about what you care about. I think we sometimes think…..”God is too busy for me.  He couldn’t possibly care about this tiny little thing I care about. I can’t ask Him for help!”  He WANTS us to cast all our anxieties on Him. Why? Because He cares. For you. He cares about your needs. He cares about your job. He cares about your relationships. He cares about everything.

There is nothing too insignificant to bring to God. There is nothing too small to involve God. God wants to walk with You and me and share in the little and big things of your life. You matter to God. 

Take a listen: Every Hour, by David Leonard, Josh Baldwin https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P0IFkkECkqY

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio

Never Changes

This past weekend, while traveling to a wedding, we stopped at Southfork Ranch. You may know that this ranch was made famous by the Ewing Family in the television series Dallas. I wasn’t a big fan of the TV show, but I was a fan of the young man living next door. You see, my husband, Ben, grew up in the smaller house next to Southfork Ranch. We went to get a look at his old house.

Things have changed a lot since the days that Ben lived next door. The driveway is now made from concrete instead of gravel. The entrance is gated instead of a chain. The fifty Live Oak trees that Ben planted down the driveway are no longer saplings. Gone are the Southfork Ranch gawkers who would turn around in his driveway. 

Some people are quite nostalgic for a visit down memory lane. Some aren’t so much, like Ben.

For many of us, though, accepting change is hard.

There is so much change going on around us. Maybe you, like me, appreciate what’s normal and predictable. I’ve had quite a big change in my life and can't say I liked it at all. 

Things are constantly changing all around us. COVID brought change to all of us. Businesses change; some even close. Family changes. Technology is constantly changing. Friendships change. Circumstances change. The prices we pay for goods and services. People’s emotions and feelings change. Seasons change. Fashion changes. Highways change. Careers change. Finances change. Trends change. Our bodies change. We can’t look at change as being negative. Change is just a reality of the world we live in.

When things are changing all around us, we can always, always, always trust in Jesus, who never changes. Hebrews 13:8 says “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday and today and forever.” What does this verse mean? First, God doesn’t change over the ages, and neither does Jesus, who is God. He was in the past the exact same as He is in the present and will always be. “The Greek word for the “same” emphatically states that Jesus is unchangeable! What good news this is in a world where things are changing at lightning speed! Jesus Christ is the one Person who can depend on to be the same, regardless of the time or the spirit of the age.” (Renner.org, July 9)

I sense that the more we grow in our relationship with Jesus, the more we can see and accept change in our lives. Knowing Jesus means that there will come a day where because of his life, death, and resurrection, everything will make sense and be the way it’s supposed to be. 

Yes, change IS hard, but when we know Jesus, we can count on the fact that He will NEVER change. We can trust Him without any reservations. That gives me perspective.

Take a listen: Only Jesus, By Casting Crowns: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_eQd3K2Fxp4

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

Get a Grip on Fear

How can fear have such a grip on our lives? How do the “what ifs?” and “what about?” take precedence in our minds? Fear of not being enough. Fear of losing face. Fear of losing control. Fear of not being enough. Fear of rejection. Fear of what may happen. Fear of not getting married. Fear of not having enough. Fear of adult children's choices. Fear of failure.

How much of your day is spent in your mind fearing something? When we’re afraid of what might happen tomorrow, or even in a few hours, we miss having joy in the moment. Can God be in those moments of future fears? God is here with us here and right now. He’s a very personal God and we’re called to take refuge in God when the future comes, but also right this very moment when the fear looms in our minds. Fear disconnects me from God. I can’t focus on my worries and God too!

What would happen in our minds if we stayed in the present? Not the future and not the past. Present thinking. I have found when I focus on living in God’s presence, in the here and now, it tends to wipe away my fears of the future. Sure, I have deadlines. Absolutely, I have things that need to get done. You bet I have a list of things to accomplish each day. Here’s the thing… living in God’s presence allows me to focus on His presence and appreciate His power. As I begin my day with prayer, I pray for those things that tend to cause me fear. I bring them up to the Lord one by one. This verse really helps give guidance for where our minds are focused:

“I bless the LORD who gives me counsel; in the night also my heart instructs me. I have set the Lord always before me; because he is at my right hand, I shall not be shaken.” Psalm 16:7-8

Gosh, the truth is my mind is NOT capable of solving all the things that often fly through it. How does your mind spin around? Work problem? Relational struggle? Unresolved issue? Parenting challenge? When we’re focused on blessing the Lord, we can’t be struggling with fear. Instead, we listen to his counsel. We invite him to help us with our problems and fears. Bring the Lord to mind! Picture yourself setting the Lord before You. He is right there. In his presence, there is no fear. There is peace.

When we’re in Jesus’ presence, nothing else matters. I get it. We still live. We still have our “lists.” We still have our concerns in life. Instead, over and over and over, we give Him our concerns. We ask Him for help. We just don’t have to do life on our own! 

Is it possible to live in God’s presence, being fully present with Him in the moment? I believe it is. Let’s pray that God will give us more of a taste of this type of living.

Take a listen to "These Are the Days" Lauren Daigle. Such a reminder to leave your worries behind! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RA8Lrtei90o

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio. 

Bandwagoner

 I hit the jackpot last Saturday when I sat down to watch college football. I just happened to turn on the TCU and Colorado game. It did not disappoint. As you may know, Coach Prime (Deion Sanders) led the Colorado Buffaloes to upset 17th-ranked TCU. The game had me glued to my seat, as the lead went back and forth throughout the game. By the 4th quarter, I was shouting like crazy, cheering my new team on to victory. Yes, I was one of the new official bandwagon fans. I’ll stay on board until further notice, even though I will always cheer for my Buckeyes.

But Coach Prime. My goodness. I watched his opening introduction when he first arrived in Colorado, notoriously known as “We’re coming.” Well, Coach Prime and his team did come and beat an impressive TCU team. His character, attitude, passion, and faith are beautiful qualities that inspire for sure. He believes in his kids. He loves his kids.

Check out Coach Prime’s halftime words at full volume in the locker room:

We’re not going to beat ourselves. We’re not going to beat ourselves. We’re going to beat them. You’re apprehensive. You didn’t really believe. But now you should. Everything we need is right in this locker room. You need to make up your mind as to how you want this story to be written. Let’s go out and be dominant. We’re going to beat them, but we’re going to do it with class and dignity. Look at the person next to you and say “I believe.” I BELIEVE!

Coach Prime has faced his challenges. In 2022, he experienced a health scare, suffering from blood clots that forced the doctors to remove two of his toes. He admitted it was one of the most trying times of his life, but He trusted God so much. Coach Prime said “My faith was sustained. How can you even measure your faith if you’re not challenged?”

Even as he stepped down from his coaching position at Jackson State, he was met with much criticism. Yet, he ignored his critics. “You have to understand the people that are criticizing you. I never listen to my critics because my critics have critics.”

Perhaps, you and I need a bit of the passion and zeal of Coach Prime. Maybe we need to really BELIEVE that with God, all things are possible. (Matthew 19:26) Maybe when bad things happen, we need to ask God to increase our faith. Maybe we need to tell those near and dear to us “I believe in you!" Just maybe, when criticized, you can find God’s unfailing love and approval.

Coach Prime isn’t perfect, but he is surely motivating. We have a heavenly Father that is perfect. He loves us and desires a relationship with us. He believes in us, even when we don’t believe in ourselves. He went the distance for us by allowing His Son to die so that we could experience everlasting life. Do you believe? 

Take a listen: Stand in Faith with Danny Gokey https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0BL7mN4jV8w

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

Labor Day Thoughts

Who doesn’t like a day off work every year when Labor Day rolls around?  It feels like the last hurrah at the pool before temperatures dip below 95 here in Texas.

This week, I was incredibly busy. I needed rest but couldn’t seem to fit the time for it! I found my mind racing with worry about how I was going to get everything done on my list. So much left undone.

As I start this busy fall season, I need to remind myself of things that help me truly rest this Labor Day:

Mind my Mind- When my mind goes to all my worries or thoughts of the future, I can’t truly embrace Christ in those moments. He’s not in the future; He’s present right now. Philippians 4:8 says “Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.”

What do I focus on in my thought life? Do those thoughts keep me anxious? Worried? Resentful? Angry? Or peaceful? When we are fully at rest, we are anchoring our minds upon Jesus.

Come to Jesus - Today, my mind was spinning in all sorts of directions. What kind of existing desires were making me in such a frenzy? I had to ask God.  Jesus invites “all who are weary” to come to Him for rest. (Matthew 11:28) Jesus was asking me to come to Him. He would calm my spinning mind. He would give me the rest I was longing for. And He did!

Acknowledge your Need for God’s Help- Do you acknowledge your immense need for God’s help? Or do you just live life the best you can on your own? Problems arise when we try to go our own way and live in our own strength. Where have you been living life in your own strength? Nothing reminds me more of my connection and need for God, but these verses in John 15:5, 9 “I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing…. As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love.”

I’m not going to say that abiding in Jesus is easy. But today, I practiced over and over keeping Him at the forefront of my mind. Abiding in Him is possible! You see, I know my true state. I’m helpless without Him. It’s in this place of great need that He meets me where I’m at, with His presence, grace, and unfailing love.

Cease Striving- In Marva Dawn’s book, Keeping the Sabbath Wholly, she describes what people find when they surrender completely to God “When we cease striving to be God, we learn a whole new kind of contentment, the delight of the presence of God in our present circumstances. When we give up our silly rebellion against God’s purposes, we discover that he provides the security for which we were searching.”  Let God be God. We are not God. Stop trying to be! Allow Him to take the weight of all you’ve been working toward. He can handle it.

I’m writing this message for me today. Hopefully, some of the rest of you need it as well.

“Are you tired? Worn out? Burned out on religion? Come to me. Get away with me and you’ll recover your life. I’ll show you how to take a real rest. Walk with me and work with me- watch how I do it. Learn the unforced rhythms of grace. I won’t lay anything heavy or ill-fitting on you. Keep company with me and you’ll learn to live freely and lightly.” Matthew 11:28-30, The Message

Take a moment to rest and worship with Kari Jobe: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WhoEktYO5w8

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

Pumpkin Cool

Pumpkins are officially back. Starting August 24, the Starbucks fall menu returned, and it was a busy day at Starbucks. Did you know that this is the 20th anniversary of customers having their first sip of Pumpkin Spice Lattes, otherwise known as PSL?

Of course, it’s hotter than blazes here in Texas, but sure, who's not ready for a pumpkin something? I sure am.

Have you ever thought how pumpkins must feel about this time of year? This was my favorite tweet of the week by Beth Moore: “Just think how many centuries pumpkins have waited patiently in the patch to be discovered by Starbucks. Never let go of your dreams.”

Think about it. Pumpkins come out with a boom in late August. Everything in the store…pumpkin muffins, Pumpkin Spice Cheerios, Jet-Puffed Pumpkin Spice Marshmallows, Twinkies, Cookie dough, Bagels, creamers, cream cheese, yogurt, coffee, and more. What happens next?

Pumpkin products blanket our HEB from now until the day after Thanksgiving when Christmas takes over and pumpkin is no longer cool. At that time my pumpkin cans are stacked in a lonely and dark pantry, until the next fall when they debut again.

I’m so thankful that we have a God that desires us every day of the year. Song of Solomon 7:10 says “I am my beloved’s, and his desire is for me.” To be desired is to be wanted, enjoyed, pursued, known, remembered, and accepted. This is the Gospel, “That God so loved the world, that He gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.” (John 3:16)

There is no human being that could possibly satisfy the very longings created in us by God. We look to other things, possessions, and people to give us some kind of identity. All fall short. 

Did you know that God desires the closest possible fellowship and intimacy with you? He wants to give your life great meaning, purpose, and value. You are God’s first love. He loves you perfectly. He will never put you on a shelf when you’re not cool, useful, or popular. He wants you to love him more than anything else.

I’m happy that pumpkins are once again cool. I'm more than grateful for being desired by God every single day of the year.

God Really Loves us, He really does! Take a listen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yG-Y9bWlCw8

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antoni

Comfort Zone Mentality

Comfort zones are for real. I’m not so sure I’m aware of when I’m in my comfort zone but I sure do know when I step out! 

Going to the Philippines was a bit out of my comfort zone. First, it was a medical mission trip, and I don’t have a medical background. Second, I would have to leave my husband for a long time. I’ve been on plenty of mission trips in the past as a single, but this was different! Thirdly, I didn’t know what to expect nor how I could be used there. Finally, it was monsoon season. Enough said.

What are your comfort zones? I think we all tend to gravitate toward certain circumstances, people, or places that we feel safe around. Maybe it’s a group of friends that you can totally be yourself around. Or perhaps, it’s a job that you’ve had for a very long time. Maybe your comfort zone involves staying in Texas, not moving anywhere else. Maybe you have a comfort zone when it comes to your palette, trying different cuisines isn’t even on your radar. If you would give a TED talk on your own personal comfort zones, what would you talk about?

I sense that God can blow up our comfort zones. I believe He wants to! Why? Because when I get real about my comfort zone, it’s about me feeling safe and secure and doing only those things that I feel “comfortable” doing. Who doesn’t love to be comfortable? We do everything we can to make sure we’re comfortable. 

One thing I’ve learned over the years is that God IS my comfort zone. Yes, He is the one that keeps me safe. He is the One who buffets me and protects me. He is the One who guides me through circumstances that are new and different. I think about Abraham who was called out by God to go to a place where he would receive his inheritance. (Genesis 12:1-9) Abraham had no clue where he was going! He had to trust God to lead Him! Is it possible to follow God and be comfortable even when we don’t know what’s next? I believe it is.

When we let go of the “comfort zone” mentality, God can increase our faith and reliance upon Him. He becomes our Comfort. All throughout scripture, God uses weak and broken people to do amazing things for his glory. I imagine Abraham was pulled out from his own comfort and had to depend on God like never before!

What would your life look like if you freed yourself from the comfort zone mentality? How might You learn to depend upon God to be your Comfort day in and day out?

“For God gave us a spirit not of fear, but of power, and love, and self-control.” 2 Timothy 1:7

Check out Tommy Walker Ministries and this unique version of "How Firm a Foundation".....we won't be moved as we allow God to be our Comfort. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ApKxPVfPWg4

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

Faces and Hearts

I’m writing this on a long flight home from the Philippines. For most of the flight, the lights are off and you can’t see people’s faces. Many are asleep. Some watch movies. Some eating. Yet their faces are hidden in the dark.

So different in the Philippines. We saw faces everywhere. Many people squeezed into a tiny hut looking hopeful as we came for a home medical visit. We saw children’s faces with all sorts of ailments in an orphanage run by Mother Theresa’s organization. We saw babies’ faces as they first came out of the womb crying at their first entrance into the world. We saw faces of young and old, male, and female, crammed into a jeepney on a hot, humid day, dripping in sweat.

It was in the Philippines that God caused me to see more clearly the person behind the face.  I saw the hearts of so many people. What are they going through? How can I lend a hand? How could I be of encouragement? How could I pray for them?

I’m drawn to the verse in 1 Samuel 16:7 “The Lord doesn’t look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” If we only observe the outward appearance of people, their homes, and circumstances, we’re not seeing as God intended. What matters to God is our hearts. God alone can read our hearts, our attitudes, and our motives. He is not influenced by our outward appearance, our accomplishments, or even the words that come from our lips. God is pleased by the one who trusts Him and acts upon His word.

The image of God is in everyone! We can so easily make our judgments without seeing the dignity and worth each human being has before God. Each person we saw in the Philippines has a story. Etched in many of their stories were poverty, poor health, abuse, human trafficking, and living from day to day.  Each of these precious human beings is loved and valued by God. He cares. He knows. He sees their faces. He knows their hearts.

Perhaps we could replace our quick judgments of people with more profound compassion. Maybe we could be more inquisitive about the pain that others are going through instead of a quick “How are you, I’m fine” moment? Maybe we could initiate more and judge less? I think we often don’t want to hear the pains of others because we don’t know how to handle our own pain! So, we hide and miss the blessing of seeing faces and people’s true hearts.

What keeps you from loving freely ALL people? What keeps you from reaching out and asking how others are really doing? What would it look like to care more about people’s hearts than their outward appearance? May God help us all to love like this.

What a beautiful picture of the God Who Sees, Take a listen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=04uKAWKEoG8

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

Peace in the Boat

Everybody is looking for peace. I find that there are always things that “come up” that seem to mess with our peace. What are those things for you?

This past week, I was focused on preparing for a mission trip to the Philippines. It was one of those weeks where I couldn’t quite keep up with all the craziness that was happening. From an excruciating dental procedure that continues to be painful to getting stopped by a policeman (thankful for only a warning!) to numerous other challenges, peace seemed elusive to me.

I want a break from the chaos. When I say I want peace in my circumstances of this last week, I’m really saying that I want a break from all the bad stuff happening. 

I think the story of Jesus walking on water really gives the perspective we need for peace:

“During the fourth watch of the night, Jesus went out to them, walking on the lake. When the disciples saw him walking on the lake, they were terrified. “It’s a ghost,” they said and cried out in fear. But Jesus immediately said to them: “Take courage! It is I. Don’t be afraid.” “Lord, if it’s you,” Peter replied, “tell me to come to you on the water.” “Come,” he said. Then Peter got down out of the boat, walked on the water, and came toward Jesus. But when he saw the wind, he was afraid and beginning to sink, crying out, “Lord, save me!” Immediately Jesus reached out his hand and caught him, “You of little faith,” he said, why did you doubt? “And when they climbed into the boat, the wind died down. Then those who were in the boat worshiped him, saying, “Truly you are the Son of God.” (Matthew 14:25-32)

I know Peter wimped out eventually, but honestly, he was the first to respond boldly and energetically to Jesus. He stepped out of his comfort zone onto the water! Peter’s mistake began when he took his eyes off Jesus and realized he couldn’t rely on just himself. When fear sets into our lives, we begin to sink. That’s true for Peter. It’s true for us.

Jesus doesn’t remove all the storms that come our way, even with his closest friends. Yet he was present in the midst of the storm. Even when Peter failed, Jesus was there to save him. Peter knew to call out to Jesus at the moment of the crisis.

Peter showed what little faith looked like. Little faith focuses on circumstances, not Jesus. Little faith is affected by our surroundings. Little faith relies on our own strength. Little faith gives in during times of crises. Oh, may God enlarge our faith!

But look at verse 32! We see that those in the boat came and worshiped God! They acknowledged that Jesus is the Son of God. Just watching this scene changed everyone there! They moved quickly from fearing the storm to worshipping Jesus. That’s where peace is found…. the presence of Jesus. 

In the midst of my crazy week, I turn to a perfect verse to guide me, Philippians 4:6-7: “Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the God which transcends all understanding will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.”  To all reading this, may we not let fear and worry rule our hearts and minds today. Not today. Not any day. Lord, give us Your peace.

Take a listen to Peace Over You (Here Be Lions) May God give us His perfect peace; https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ofJShphUUuI

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

Heart Check

Crunchy and crispy should describe some yummy snacks from Trader Joe’s. For many in Texas, it describes our drought-stricken yards. Yes, we still have green, but there is plenty of crunch and crispy brown grass taking over. Water restrictions are in place, so the only alternative is getting out there and hand watering. That doesn’t happen much at our house.

We all have different views of summer. I try not to complain about the 100-degree+ temps that drag on and on because frankly, there’s not one thing I can do about it. On my walks in the morning, I get so excited for Chara, my dog, when we see a yard with sprinklers in full force. Chara is beyond thrilled to get doused and plays gleefully in the water! She knows these sprinklers come few and far between.

Sometimes, our hearts are like that crunchy and crispy brown grass. Dry. Discouraged. Atrophied. Powerless. Dead. Our spiritual health matters! And if we’re not comfortable with exploring our spiritual life, we can just put it aside and focus entirely on our physical or mental health. Be willing to be uncomfortable! Your spiritual life matters to God.

What if you did a quick spiritual inventory? What if you were willing to get uncomfortable and explore your spiritual health? What if your heart is brittle and crunchy and dark? Would you want to tend to it?

Here are a few of the questions Dr. Darryl Burling offers to help expose our crunchy and crispy hearts:

1. Am I generally ungrateful for what I have?
2. Do I get angry?
3. Do I look down on others?
4. Do I have a high view of my importance or abilities?
5. Do I focus on my lack of gifts and abilities?
6. Do I talk too much?
7. Do I talk about myself too much?
8. Do I seek to control?
9. Do I dwell on what others think?
10. Am I devastated or angered by criticism?
11. Am I unteachable?
12. Am I sarcastic, hurtful, or degrading?
13. Do I abstain from serving others?
14. Do I lack compassion?
15. Do I get defensive or blame others?
16. Am I reluctant to admit I’m wrong?
17. Do I minimize my sins and shortcoming and maximize the sins of others?
18. Am I jealous of others?
19. Do I use others?
20. Do I complain against or pass judgment on God?

If you could pick three questions you struggle with, what would they be? As I ask God to expose my weaknesses and show where my heart is brittle, He does! Yet, God extends grace upon grace to us as we run to Him for our hearts' hurt.

Isaiah 58:11 says “The LORD will guide you always, he will satisfy your needs in a sun-scorched land and will strengthen your frame. You will be like a well-watered garden, like a spring whose waters never fail.”

Are you in a desert season of life? God brings his word to refresh you and hydrate you. Do you struggle to know what direction to take? God will guide you continually. Are you weary? God promises to restore our strength. Do you feel dry? He promises to make us like well-watered gardens and give us life! God will give you abundant life even in the emptiest of places. Will You seek Him today?

Take a listen to this song and give God your heart: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qkSBmRAVXNc

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

Doe, A Deer

I had never had a White-tailed deer get aggressive with me, until recently. While in Colorado, Ben and I were walking on a local city trail near the Durango-Silverton railroad track. We had just seen a mama (Doe, a deer) with her baby when a few seconds later, there was the mama (Doe, a deer), a bit too close for comfort. She was protecting her baby.

Ben and Chara, our doggie, were a bit ahead. There I was standing next to Doe having a bit of a stand-off. I thought it would be profitable to run, but Ben quickly said no. Instead, I was to turn, face the deer and show that I’m in charge. There was no sense in trying to outrun Doe! So, we had a bit of a back-and-forth talk until I proceeded to catch up with Ben.

A scared, protective, or irritated deer will show aggression and not hesitate to attack. A deer is never out to attack, but usually just wants to be left alone. Having humans and a dog near her wee one made for a very angry Doe.

Let’s look at Habakkuk in the Bible and the connection to deer. Habakkuk had a lot of questions and sought answers to his questions. He was troubled by life’s difficult questions. He saw a dying world and it broke his heart. Why is there so much evil in the world? Why does it seem that the evil seems to be winning? We ask similar questions too.

The book of Habakkuk is short, but profound as we watch a doubting Habakkuk question God, then declares he will wait to hear God’s answers to his complaints. The book concludes with a prayer of triumph and joy. Habakkuk rejoices in who God is and what He will do in the coming days.

Ya gotta love Habakkuk’s strong faith when nothing was going right! In Habakkuk 3:17-18, he cries out: “Though the fig tree does not bud and there are no grapes on the vines, though the olive crop fails and the fields produce no food, though there are no sheep in the pen and no cattle in the stalls, yet I will rejoice in the LORD, I will be joyful in God my Savior.”  Have you ever felt like Habakkuk? Fig trees not blossoming. No fruit on the vines and no food as a result. The flock cut off from the fold. No herd in the stalls. Everything was stinking awful.

Suffering is losing things that we love deeply. Loss of health. Loss of a loved one. Loss of a job. Loss of our home. Loss of our lives as we know it. But wait, Habakkuk had a different perspective on his suffering. Habakkuk had sought God’s perspective with the bad stuff going on.

Here is the deer verse in Habakkuk 3:19: “The LORD God is my strength; He will make my feet like deer’s feet and He will make me walk on my high hills.”

Habakkuk said that God will make his feet like deer’s feet. He must have pictured the deer running on the high hills, leaping, jumping, never missing a step, never falling. Deer can leap on the hills as if dancing. They look like they are so full of life and joy! Habakkuk was saying that God will set his steps firmly and enjoy that same fullness of life. As he trusted in God, He would not let Habakkuk slip or fall.

I’m not sure when I will meet another aggressive deer. I will be watching! But, more than ever, I want to keep my eyes fixed on God, amidst the hurts and suffering that goes on in this world.

May we keep our eyes on God and worship Him and Him alone. Take a listen to this old song made new: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sVoQjxVGy-0 

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

Three Times a Charm?

How many times can you switch hotel rooms in one night? The answer for us is three times. We were dog-tired (and our dog was too) coming into Lubbock on our return from a Colorado vacation. Rest, reading, watching the Spurs, and getting takeout seemed like a perfect way to end our day. Until it wasn’t.

Upon arrival, our first room was fine until we realized that the sink didn’t drain. We had brought everything but the kitchen sink into our room, so, unfortunately, everything had to be moved again. The second room turned out to be where they had recently held a small smoking convention. Finally, the third room had to be a charm, right? Wrong. It didn’t take long to realize that this sink didn’t drain at all either! I bet you never knew that the shower is a great place to brush your teeth.

With a quick perusal of this lovely hotel, we realized it was brand-spanking new! The place wasn’t close to being filled. It was lovely! We were grateful to get a free room that night, but we had to think about whether we’d return on future trips through Lubbock.

The hotel had some kinks (or sinks) to work out as they dealt with their opening issues. Yet, I think we WOULD return for another try. And frankly, we were happy to get a free room that night!

So often, we quickly cancel anyone or anything who disappoints us. We’re so quick to cancel people, hotels, restaurants, companies, and workplaces, for even the slightest mistake or for something they did in the past. And we live smugly, with our cancel list in hand, avoiding, canceling, and making it clear that so and so is on our bad list. (Please know, there ARE things that we should cancel, namely anything or anyone that is abusive.)

I must sincerely ask some important questions here: What would it be like if the Lord canceled us this way? What if He didn’t give us another chance? What if we held on to everything we ever did, said wrong, or goofed up in life?

Psalm 130:3,4 says it so well: “If you, O LORD, kept a record of sins, O LORD, who could stand?” Absolutely no one. We all deserve to be canceled in God’s eyes because ALL of us have sinned. All of us fall short of measuring up to God’s perfect standard. That’s why God, who loved us so much, offers us the beautiful gift of salvation and forgiveness through Jesus. (John 3:16) Instead of canceling us, if we invite Jesus into our hearts, the Lord wipes away our detailed long list of sins and nails it on the cross. Gone. Once and for all. Never to be brought back up again. That’s grace, the grace of God.

One of the great definitions of grace that I’ve heard is this: “Grace is God’s favor lavished on the utterly undeserving.” (rightfromtheheart.org) The more I realize how undeserving I am, the more I am grateful for God’s grace in my life. I can’t help but want to extend that grace to others! Judging, avoiding, hiding, and gossiping have no place in God’s beautiful life of grace.

How could understanding God’s grace change the way you and I do life and relationships? I doubt we’d carry on as normal. I sense that God’s grace, once understood, could change the way we approach our daily lives. It could affect the way we work and serve. It would change our family and affect every relationship. It would affect our behavior in relationships, albeit canceling, judging, disapproving, and holding lifelong grudges. Maybe understanding the enormity of God’s grace would change your life and mine too.

Our world needs the message of grace now more than ever. Will you be a carrier of God's grace?

Worship: Oh, may we grasp the enormity of God's grace! Take a listen: Until Grace by Tauren Wells, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vqSvTJeGU0k

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.