Monday, September 26, 2022

Never Give Up!

Who created the game of basketball? Dr. James Naismith. I remember learning that in high school phys ed! But what you may not know is the story behind his story.

James Naismith had a tough life. He was born in 1861, but his father and mother died when he was only 8 years old. He then made his home with his uncle. He earned a theology degree from McGill University and then graduated from Springfield College, then the YMCA Training School.  He attended as a student but was later asked to join the faculty in 1891 by Dr. Luther Gulick, the director of the physical education department.

During a psychology seminar, Dr. Gulick challenged the class to invent a new game. He was looking for an indoor activity that would be interesting, easy to learn, and easy to play indoors in the winter. This activity was needed both by the Training School and the YMCA’s across the country. Naismith thought that he could take factors of known games and recombine them.

Then Dr. Gulick assigned him a class of incorrigible students, who had no interest in exercise and no enthusiasm! Naismith felt imposed upon! Why him? He struggled with the class of young men with no success. He made attempts at modifying football and soccer, but that went nowhere. It was challenge after challenge.

Naismith recounts “With weary footsteps, I mounted the flight of stairs that led to my office directly over the locker room. I slumped down in my chair, my head in my hands and my elbows on the desk. I was thoroughly disheartened and discouraged young instructor."  The game of basketball grew out of Naismith’s discouraged, but determined spirit. It was invented by a man sitting at his desk, thinking it through, and never giving up. To think, some years later, Dr. Naismith and his wife attended the Olympic Games in 1936 when basketball became one of the Olympic events! Can you imagine all he felt watching the Olympics? (much of the content of Naismith's life from www.ymca.int)

I don’t know about you, but there have been days in my career where I felt like Naismith…. slumped down in my chair, head in my hands, and elbows on my desk. You know that feeling. Discouraged. Defeated. Not sure what to do. We sometimes can only see what we can see. We can’t see how we can possibly get out of our bad situation. When we’re up against overwhelming circumstances, (parenting struggles, relational pain, work woes, a new diagnosis, or something else) we may see no possible way out. We feel helpless. It reminds me of David in the Bible when he was at his wit’s end. Psalm 86:1-2 “Hear, O LORD, and answer me, for I am poor and needy. Guard my life, for I am devoted to you. You are my God; save your servant who trusts in You.” Sometimes, in the midst of our troubles, all we can do is cry out to God. He hears and cares for us!

Just think, Naismith seemed at the end of himself, and yet that was literally the very beginning of the game of basketball! So many people have received such joy from playing and watching the game of basketball. No matter what’s going on, please don’t give up. God has a plan for you and it is always good.

“I want to leave the world a better place for me having been there.” Dr. James Naismith

“My pay has not been in dollars, but in the satisfaction of giving something to the world that is a benefit to the masses of people.” Dr. James Naismith

Check out my favorite worship song these days. I know, I've shared it before, but it's so good. What would happen if we let God take control of our life? Perhaps, it would be more than we could ever imagine!!!! Take a listen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wrQuKK6jz-4

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

Monday, September 12, 2022

She Still Had a Need

I was saddened to hear of the loss of Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth II. The stability she provided for the United Kingdom for the last 70 years was extraordinary. I was struck by her gentle and quiet spirit, her kindness, and her humility.

Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth II had everything that money could buy. There would be someone at her beck and call any moment of the day. She could go wherever she wanted to go whenever she wanted to go. She had more beautiful clothes than she could ever wear. She was cheered by throngs of people wherever she went. She was highly respected and beloved by many. Yet, she STILL had a need, and she KNEW she had a need.

She spoke about her faith: "For me, the teachings of Christ and my own personal accountability before God provide a framework in which I try to lead my life. I, like so many of you, have drawn great comfort in difficult times from Christ’s words and example.”  Queen Elizabeth realized her need. She needed Jesus.

I think about Paul in the Bible and his extraordinary background and pedigree. Philippians 3:5-7, Paul bears all by telling the Philippians these words about his past:

“If someone else thinks they have reasons to put confidence in the flesh, I have more; circumcised on the eighth day, of the people of Israel, of the tribe of Benjamin, a Hebrew of Hebrews, in regard to the law, a Pharisee; as for zeal, persecuting the church; as for righteousness based on the law, faultless. But whatever were gains to me I now consider loss for the sake of Christ.”

Paul had every reason in the world to be cocky. He was a cool dude with an extraordinary background who knew the law backward and forwards. He had the right pedigree. The right background. He even boasted about his faithfulness to the law. Yet, He STILL had a need. He needed Jesus.  

Dr. Scott McKnight writes “His former way of life was shattered by an entirely new perspective what were ‘gains’ are now a ‘loss.’  Paul literally considered his former law-observant life as ‘garbage.’” (3:7-8) (Scott McKnight, Philippians and 1st and 2nd Thessalonians) What mattered to Him now was “knowing Christ Jesus, my Lord.” Paul’s faith was in a real person, Jesus! He saw His need! And Jesus transformed Paul’s life, as He did Queen Elizabeth.

We’re all broken people. We all need Jesus. Queen Elizabeth. Paul in the Bible. You and I. Check out the song "We All Need Jesus"(by Danny Gokey and Koryn Hawthorne) that says it so well:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BRX-r51_1TA

 
Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

Monday, September 5, 2022

Give a Little Kindness

As I exited the plane this past week, I thought about the flight attendant’s words: “Be safe. Be kind and welcome to Orange County!” Be safe. Be kind. It seems like we all need a bit more kindness these days.

While in Fullerton, my old stomping grounds, I enjoyed daily early morning walks in the hills. One day, I was walking along a beautiful street lined with Eucalyptus trees when a red SUV pulled up. A frantic woman asked if I had seen her German Shepherd. I said, “No, I had not, but I will look and I will pray.” I proceed on my walk, noticing my surroundings and praying for her and her missing dog. As I turned around at the end of the street, I heard a group of dogs barking. All at once the woman pulled up, thinking she heard her dog and ran into her own house! Sure enough, the dog had returned to his own yard while she was gone. I waited in the driveway and soon she came out and gave me a big hug, saying “I don’t even know you and you’ve been so kind.”

It seems that God gives us opportunities to be kind every single day. They pop up in all kinds of ways. Many times, it’s easy to be kind. Walking and praying and looking for a German Shepherd was pretty easy. But, there are times when it’s not so easy to be kind:

Kindness when interacting online
Kindness when a salesman comes to the door
Kindness when someone is downright irritating
Kindness when someone/something interrupts our busy day
Kindness when interacting with a homeless person
Kindness when our order is delayed at a restaurant
Kindness to your family members


Rick Warren writes “Kindness always starts with noticing the needs and hurts of others.” Do you notice the people around you? Kindness is an action that shows you care. But it’s God’s kindness that compels us to be kind to others. When we walk with God, we have the Holy Spirit in our lives, who literally helps us to love, serve and care for others, even when we’d prefer to turn our heads and do our own thing.

Ephesians 4:32 gives us guidance on how to live each day “Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.” When we understand and accept God’s amazing kindness that He offers, He literally gives us the power and ability to be kind to others!

Every day we have a choice to be kind to those we encounter, either in person or on the internet. Will you ask God to help you to be kind to all you encounter?

“The lens in which we see people determine how we value people, and how we value people will determine whether we will validate or victimize people.” Pastor Ed Newton

“Do not let kindness and truth leave you; Bind then about your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart.” 
Proverbs 3:3 (NASB)


This song by ElevateKIDS “Give a Little Kindness” really seemed to speak to me today: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qchyD2INXzk

 
Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.