Monday, September 26, 2022

Never Give Up!

Who created the game of basketball? Dr. James Naismith. I remember learning that in high school phys ed! But what you may not know is the story behind his story.

James Naismith had a tough life. He was born in 1861, but his father and mother died when he was only 8 years old. He then made his home with his uncle. He earned a theology degree from McGill University and then graduated from Springfield College, then the YMCA Training School.  He attended as a student but was later asked to join the faculty in 1891 by Dr. Luther Gulick, the director of the physical education department.

During a psychology seminar, Dr. Gulick challenged the class to invent a new game. He was looking for an indoor activity that would be interesting, easy to learn, and easy to play indoors in the winter. This activity was needed both by the Training School and the YMCA’s across the country. Naismith thought that he could take factors of known games and recombine them.

Then Dr. Gulick assigned him a class of incorrigible students, who had no interest in exercise and no enthusiasm! Naismith felt imposed upon! Why him? He struggled with the class of young men with no success. He made attempts at modifying football and soccer, but that went nowhere. It was challenge after challenge.

Naismith recounts “With weary footsteps, I mounted the flight of stairs that led to my office directly over the locker room. I slumped down in my chair, my head in my hands and my elbows on the desk. I was thoroughly disheartened and discouraged young instructor."  The game of basketball grew out of Naismith’s discouraged, but determined spirit. It was invented by a man sitting at his desk, thinking it through, and never giving up. To think, some years later, Dr. Naismith and his wife attended the Olympic Games in 1936 when basketball became one of the Olympic events! Can you imagine all he felt watching the Olympics? (much of the content of Naismith's life from www.ymca.int)

I don’t know about you, but there have been days in my career where I felt like Naismith…. slumped down in my chair, head in my hands, and elbows on my desk. You know that feeling. Discouraged. Defeated. Not sure what to do. We sometimes can only see what we can see. We can’t see how we can possibly get out of our bad situation. When we’re up against overwhelming circumstances, (parenting struggles, relational pain, work woes, a new diagnosis, or something else) we may see no possible way out. We feel helpless. It reminds me of David in the Bible when he was at his wit’s end. Psalm 86:1-2 “Hear, O LORD, and answer me, for I am poor and needy. Guard my life, for I am devoted to you. You are my God; save your servant who trusts in You.” Sometimes, in the midst of our troubles, all we can do is cry out to God. He hears and cares for us!

Just think, Naismith seemed at the end of himself, and yet that was literally the very beginning of the game of basketball! So many people have received such joy from playing and watching the game of basketball. No matter what’s going on, please don’t give up. God has a plan for you and it is always good.

“I want to leave the world a better place for me having been there.” Dr. James Naismith

“My pay has not been in dollars, but in the satisfaction of giving something to the world that is a benefit to the masses of people.” Dr. James Naismith

Check out my favorite worship song these days. I know, I've shared it before, but it's so good. What would happen if we let God take control of our life? Perhaps, it would be more than we could ever imagine!!!! Take a listen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wrQuKK6jz-4

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

Monday, September 12, 2022

She Still Had a Need

I was saddened to hear of the loss of Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth II. The stability she provided for the United Kingdom for the last 70 years was extraordinary. I was struck by her gentle and quiet spirit, her kindness, and her humility.

Her Majesty Queen Elizabeth II had everything that money could buy. There would be someone at her beck and call any moment of the day. She could go wherever she wanted to go whenever she wanted to go. She had more beautiful clothes than she could ever wear. She was cheered by throngs of people wherever she went. She was highly respected and beloved by many. Yet, she STILL had a need, and she KNEW she had a need.

She spoke about her faith: "For me, the teachings of Christ and my own personal accountability before God provide a framework in which I try to lead my life. I, like so many of you, have drawn great comfort in difficult times from Christ’s words and example.”  Queen Elizabeth realized her need. She needed Jesus.

I think about Paul in the Bible and his extraordinary background and pedigree. Philippians 3:5-7, Paul bears all by telling the Philippians these words about his past:

“If someone else thinks they have reasons to put confidence in the flesh, I have more; circumcised on the eighth day, of the people of Israel, of the tribe of Benjamin, a Hebrew of Hebrews, in regard to the law, a Pharisee; as for zeal, persecuting the church; as for righteousness based on the law, faultless. But whatever were gains to me I now consider loss for the sake of Christ.”

Paul had every reason in the world to be cocky. He was a cool dude with an extraordinary background who knew the law backward and forwards. He had the right pedigree. The right background. He even boasted about his faithfulness to the law. Yet, He STILL had a need. He needed Jesus.  

Dr. Scott McKnight writes “His former way of life was shattered by an entirely new perspective what were ‘gains’ are now a ‘loss.’  Paul literally considered his former law-observant life as ‘garbage.’” (3:7-8) (Scott McKnight, Philippians and 1st and 2nd Thessalonians) What mattered to Him now was “knowing Christ Jesus, my Lord.” Paul’s faith was in a real person, Jesus! He saw His need! And Jesus transformed Paul’s life, as He did Queen Elizabeth.

We’re all broken people. We all need Jesus. Queen Elizabeth. Paul in the Bible. You and I. Check out the song "We All Need Jesus"(by Danny Gokey and Koryn Hawthorne) that says it so well:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BRX-r51_1TA

 
Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

Monday, September 5, 2022

Give a Little Kindness

As I exited the plane this past week, I thought about the flight attendant’s words: “Be safe. Be kind and welcome to Orange County!” Be safe. Be kind. It seems like we all need a bit more kindness these days.

While in Fullerton, my old stomping grounds, I enjoyed daily early morning walks in the hills. One day, I was walking along a beautiful street lined with Eucalyptus trees when a red SUV pulled up. A frantic woman asked if I had seen her German Shepherd. I said, “No, I had not, but I will look and I will pray.” I proceed on my walk, noticing my surroundings and praying for her and her missing dog. As I turned around at the end of the street, I heard a group of dogs barking. All at once the woman pulled up, thinking she heard her dog and ran into her own house! Sure enough, the dog had returned to his own yard while she was gone. I waited in the driveway and soon she came out and gave me a big hug, saying “I don’t even know you and you’ve been so kind.”

It seems that God gives us opportunities to be kind every single day. They pop up in all kinds of ways. Many times, it’s easy to be kind. Walking and praying and looking for a German Shepherd was pretty easy. But, there are times when it’s not so easy to be kind:

Kindness when interacting online
Kindness when a salesman comes to the door
Kindness when someone is downright irritating
Kindness when someone/something interrupts our busy day
Kindness when interacting with a homeless person
Kindness when our order is delayed at a restaurant
Kindness to your family members


Rick Warren writes “Kindness always starts with noticing the needs and hurts of others.” Do you notice the people around you? Kindness is an action that shows you care. But it’s God’s kindness that compels us to be kind to others. When we walk with God, we have the Holy Spirit in our lives, who literally helps us to love, serve and care for others, even when we’d prefer to turn our heads and do our own thing.

Ephesians 4:32 gives us guidance on how to live each day “Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.” When we understand and accept God’s amazing kindness that He offers, He literally gives us the power and ability to be kind to others!

Every day we have a choice to be kind to those we encounter, either in person or on the internet. Will you ask God to help you to be kind to all you encounter?

“The lens in which we see people determine how we value people, and how we value people will determine whether we will validate or victimize people.” Pastor Ed Newton

“Do not let kindness and truth leave you; Bind then about your neck, write them on the tablet of your heart.” 
Proverbs 3:3 (NASB)


This song by ElevateKIDS “Give a Little Kindness” really seemed to speak to me today: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qchyD2INXzk

 
Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

Monday, August 29, 2022

Why God?

I think a lot of people give up on God. Life gets hard, sooner or later. Many get disappointed in God because something happened that shook them to the core. Some may even try to pray but don’t feel like God answers. God has failed to meet expectations. The result? You give up on God. God wasn’t there when you needed Him most. So, you do life with God at a distance.

What questions do you have for God today? What questions for God keep you from God?

God, why won’t you heal ________?
Why can’t you just answer this prayer?
Why did you allow ___________to happen?
Why won’t you restore this relationship?
Why did you allow trauma/abuse in my life?
Why do you allow good people to suffer?
Why do I have to wait so long?
Why am I going through this situation?


I remember going through a mysterious pain behind my knee years ago that literally changed my day-to-day life. The debilitating pain would occur out of nowhere and I could hardly take it. I went to doctor after doctor for answers and finally ended up at Mayo Clinic. Even Mayo didn’t know what it was! It wasn’t until a year later, that I was diagnosed with an issue with a nerve that caused all the madness. So many people prayed during that time for healing. I questioned God and his ways. Thankfully, with extensive therapy and lots of prayers, God healed me.

I find that we don’t really like God’s answers when they don't line up with what we want. I want God to want what I want. During that season of chronic pain, I wanted to see the reasons God allowed it and exercise my option to disagree with Him! I find this verse gives me perspective in times I question God:

“For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the LORD. For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.” Isaiah 55:8-9

Over the years, I’ve come to believe that these very tough circumstances in life have actually drawn me closer to God. He knows what is best for me and always working in every life situation, for my good. It is through these difficult times, I have the opportunity to believe in God for what seems impossible.

We tend to believe only what we can fathom and see. What we fail to see is what God can do! Matthew 19:26 says, “Jesus looked at them and said, ‘With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.’”

Check out this song that helps me get out of my human expectations and see the power and greatness of my God. I can believe in miracles! I can pray for miracles! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NTkYjd3RD6k

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio. 

Monday, August 22, 2022

Change

This week, my husband, Ben, went from a relaxed summer of fly fishing on the Guadelupe River and hiking in Colorado to a crazy week of teaching at the university. He also said goodbye to a fellow colleague and friend who will soon be moving out of state. So much change in one week! Maybe you have some change going on as well?

Change is inevitable for all of us. Change can be good and change can be hard. How can change be good? Change can bring new opportunities. Change helps us grow. Change helps us develop resilience. Change keeps us flexible. Change keeps us from monotony.

Yet, change can be hard. Change is stressful! We all have observed a myriad of changes during the last few years. COVID has and is still affecting all of us to some extent. Change can make us feel like we’ve lost control. Change can make us feel unclear about the future. We actually can fear change and how it will affect us personally.

In my life, I have experienced much change. To be honest, I love “sameness” and really appreciate sticking to an even keel life. Yet, I’ve made some significant moves in my life that weren’t always easy. There were times I didn’t like change, but eventually, I saw God do some pretty cool things because I was willing to change. God gave me a verse decades ago that truly was His guidance for me in the midst of change. It’s found in Isaiah 43:18-19:

“Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.”  

Let’s consider what we can learn about change through this verse:

We can be grateful for the past and anticipate the future.
 God basically says “Don’t live in the past!” Maybe you’ve heard people say “I wish it was like it used to be….” Or “I really prefer to stay in my comfort zone.” We too can get stuck in the past! Our comfort zones seem safe! Yet, when we’re grateful for the past while choosing to live in the present, we won’t get stuck!

God’s promise is for something new. God literally says “See, I am doing a new thing!” The most important word in this entire verse is SEE. God is clearly doing something new….now it springs up! See! He is working even when we don’t see that He is working! God calls us to trust Him even in what is not seen yet.

Be open to the new things in your life! How would your life change if you let go of your comfort zone? Opening ourselves up to new things doesn’t have to be hard. It’s usually more about us changing our personal perspective than about making a huge lifestyle change. When we are open to change, we actually become change agents! We help others change too!

How are you currently experiencing a change in your life? How are you doing with those changes? May you see, really see, that God is doing a new thing in your life.
The song, In Jesus Name, by Katy Nichols, seemed to resonate with me when I think about change. He's the God of possible! Take a listen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4VukxLl6HLE

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

Monday, August 15, 2022

Judging Others

Judging people has become a national pastime. You certainly see it on social media loud and clear. You can also feel the judgment of others, sometimes when they don’t even say one word! None of us like to be judged, but we are certainly quick to judge.

Judgments are spontaneous and often inaccurate interpretations of our environment that influence our thinking and behavior. (Exercises for Non-judgmental Thinking, Christy Matta) Judgments go further when we pass on our judgments to others, and they join in on the fun.

Now don’t judge me. But there are times when we need to make judgments and discern what’s best in a situation. I obviously get that. However, our tendency is to emotionally react to something or someone and quickly make the judgment, even in our minds.  We don’t even know when we’re doing it!

Do you realize how your judgments hurt other people? I don’t think most people realize this. God certainly doesn’t look lightly on this topic because, honestly, He is a just, merciful judge and His ways and intentions are for our good and the good of others. (Psalm 145:8-9) In the New Testament, Jesus commands in Matthew 7:1 “Do not judge, that you may not be judge.” Wow….I would say that’s something to consider.

Judging others is rooted in our own insecurity and pride. Our pride has a way of justifying our judgment because we think we know better than another person. It’s tempting not to stop there. Then, criticism, gossip, and making assumptions about others follow. Not good, folks. And here’s the kicker, we even judge ourselves!!!

Maybe we need to just start believing that a person’s intentions are good until proven differently. Some years back, for a class, I was asked to memorize a portion of scripture, Colossians 3:1-17. It truly is such a beautiful portion of scripture that depicts so well the Christian life. Hidden in this gem of scripture is a winsome beautiful way of living:

“Put on then, as God’s chosen ones, holy and beloved, compassionate hearts, kindness, humility, meekness, and patience, bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other, as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.” (Colossians 3:12-13)

What would it look like if you lived this verse? You would not be judging, criticizing, or demeaning people, that’s for sure. When we take a non-judgmental stance, we’re different. We’re not engaging with all the gossip or hearsay. We’re not standoffish to those we dislike. We give up judging for what we think that person did or didn’t do umpteen years ago. You’re free to love. Free to care. The world needs more people like this.

With my own personal feelings on this topic, I find Lauren Daigle’s song, You Say, so helpful to listen to:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p9cokosaXLA

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

Monday, August 8, 2022

Let's Talk!-God

Do you believe God answers prayer? Do you believe God answers your prayers? If you don’t believe God answers prayer, why would you pray? If you don’t believe God could answer your prayers, why would you pray?

The reason why I start my day at 0-dark-hundred is that I believe that God answers my prayers. It is a sacred time where I sit down, journal, read Scripture, talk to God, and share with Him just what’s on my heart. I need God. Call me weak. Ok, I know that. But I need God.

Throughout the Bible, you can read about men and women who believed God answered prayers and prayed like crazy. People like Abraham, Hannah, Moses, Paul, Daniel, David, Nehemiah, and even Jesus to name a few.  Reading the Bible really helps me understand prayer as well! I see in the Bible that not everyone had their prayers answered the way they wanted them answered. God might know that the thing you’re praying for is not the best thing for you or that someone you’re praying for. Just remember, He always wants the best for us! Always.

Sometimes, the answer is “wait.” Oh, boy, I know about waiting! I prayed and prayed for a husband for a long time and God finally answered my prayers! What if I had given up praying? What if I doubted Him? Even though hard at times, I never doubted that He would provide His very best for me. And He did. Ben!

I would just love for you to understand how personal God is. He longs to be in a relationship with You. Check out this amazing passage in 2 Kings 20:4-6:

 “And it happened before Isaiah had gone out into the middle court, that the word of the LORD came to him, saying “Return and tell Hezekiah the leader of My people, “Thus says the LORD, the God of David your father: “I have heard your prayer, I have seen your tears; surely I will heal you.”

Did you see how personal God is? “I have heard your prayer. I have seen your tears.” Do you believe that?

Did you know that He knows every struggle you’re going through?
Do you believe that He knows where you got your wounds and scars?
Did you know that He saw the tears that you shed recently?
Did you know that God knows all your fears?
Do you believe that He weeps when you weep?  
Did you know He knows when your heart is hardened toward Him?


Beth Moore writes “The weakest person praying is stronger than the mightiest one who’s not.” Call me weak, but prayer is where I get my strength.
God is so personal and truly the air that I breathe! Take a listen! That's "Who You Are to Me" with Lady A @ Chris Tomlin: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OJdp4V2itXw

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.