Make Room

Summer is almost here and before you know it, we’ll be busy with summer-like things.  I prefer to make some summer goals that include work, volunteering with our pooch, exercising, working on my horse, special home projects, and downtime.

Downtime. It’s that downtime that is problematic. Why does it seem that there’s no downtime, especially with God? We can get so overwhelmed with our daily to-do list that making room for God in our lives seems problematic. How in the world do we have time for hanging out with an invisible God? That sounds ridiculously strange, right? Not at all.

I’m excited about my summer goals! But, at the heart of it all, is having a vital, growing relationship with God.

Personally, I need my time with God each day because I know who I can be without Him. A mess. An absolute mess. There are certain practices that I find very important to help me make room for God in my day. Here are a few:

Take moments to be quiet with God- God longs for us to be with Him. Psalm 46:10 “Be still and know that I am God.” We have trouble with the “being still” part AND the “knowing that I am God” part. The idea of slowing and being still is strange for many of us. Sitting with God in silence seems counterculture, so much so, that there’s a tendency to want to pick up our phones and find out what’s new on Facebook instead! Scrolling our phones can seem way more appealing than spending time with God. I encourage you to try a different practice: Schedule time with God, just like you do an appointment! Find a cozy spot, indoors or outdoors, and get alone with God. He will meet you there. Every time.

Invite Jesus into everything- I’ve come to realize that I do far better when I invite Jesus into everything that I do. My first job out of college was at a nursing home. Upon my departure from that job, Florence Travis, (100 years old at the time) gave me a 3x5 card with these words on it: “Draw near to God and He will draw near to you.” (James 4:8) The wisdom of Florence was perfect. She left her mark on my life! I’ve learned to invite Jesus into my work schedule and basically my daily life. I need Jesus! I invite Christ to make his home in my heart. Jesus longs to have a personal relationship with all of us. He longs to walk with us through everything. We are never alone.

Take off the masks- Many prefer to hide behind masks, that may or may not be actual masks. As much as we don’t like pain, it can become our new identity. We throw on our masks to hide from others because truth be told, others could hurt us. We begin to live with masks, never taking them off, hiding our true selves. Our loving Father knows the masks we wear, every one of them. Invite Him to gently peel each layer off so that You can become the real “You.” The unmasked “You” will discover a beautiful new identity!

Just think what God could do in your life this summer if you practiced making room for God!

“Step out of the traffic! Take a long, loving look at me, your High God.” Psalm 46:10 (The Message)

“Never hide your fear because it will become your own God, hidden inside you.” Sorin Cerin

Take a listen: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wrQuKK6jz-4

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

A Long Shot

Rich Strike is America’s horse. Who didn’t love seeing Rich Strike, the second-longest shot ever to score in the Derby, win the whole thing? He showed up the day before because of a last-minute scratch.

The definition of a long shot is “an entry (as in a horse race) given little chance of winning.” Rich Strike was a long shot.

What is it about seeing the long shot for this race become the winner? Maybe you’ve seen the ariel view of the Derby? Rich Strike was dramatically weaving his way from the back of the pack to the memorable victory! I’ve watched it over and over, mesmerized by his move toward the front. Hearing the announcer, seconds before the race ends, exclaim “Rich Strike is coming up on the inside! Oh, my goodness! The longest shot has won the Kentucky Derby!”  The improbability of it all! Who would have dreamed?

Perhaps this story stirs us all. Is it when something so impossible becomes a reality that we respond in wonder and awe? Have we stopped believing in the impossible?

My mind embraces a greater reality when I read Matthew 19:26 “Jesus looked at them and said, ‘With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.’" We tend to live in terms of what our human minds can comprehend. We forget that God is God and "able to do exceedingly abundantly above all we can ask or think… " (Ephesians 3:20)

There’s nothing that our God can’t do. I really believe that. I believe a vital prayer life is a key to believing this. I have in my prayer journal a section I call “Only God” prayers. “Only God” prayers are where I plead with God, beg with God, and basically ask God to do what only God to do. It feels impossible, but it's not. Real-time talk: These are my long-shot prayers. I will NOT stop believing that God can do these things. I will NOT stop praying about these things.  

Maybe you have some long-shot prayers? A medical miracle. Revitalizing a marriage. Healing from addiction. Overcoming depression and anxiety. Relational healing. Bringing good out of bad. No longer living in fear. Providing finances out of nowhere. Years of infertility and getting pregnant. God longs for you to come to Him with your “only God” prayers.

When God does what only He can do, it changes us. Yes, us. We look with awe and wonder and worship our God as we see this amazing impossibility happen! Our view of God grows. It changes what we seek. We’re no longer wishing and hoping for something out there in the universe to happen. Instead, we live in a radical relationship with a holy God who always has His best in mind for us. We can trust God to do what He says He will do.

Take a listen:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5MChgCghLJg

(There’s Nothing Our God Can’t Do, Live from Passion, 2020)

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

God's Goodness in My Life

I didn’t realize until it was time to write my 'Start Up' for the Y that it would land on my birthday. There was a day and age when I loved to draw attention to my birthday, but not so much now. But I think it’s a noteworthy time to draw attention to what God has done in my life. There’s so much, but here’s a snapshot:

God had a perfect plan for my life. My beginnings in life started in an orphanage. I was thankful to be placed into adoption by my parents. Later in life, as I came to know my birth parents, I learned more about what happened. My mother was an acrobatic roller-skating dancer who danced her way into living rooms on the variety of TV shows of that era. She basically lost her career due to her “surprise.” Even despite my birth father offering to marry her, that didn’t happen. I’m so grateful for God giving me the gift of life, despite the rough beginnings. He had a perfect plan even though many would have called my birth a “mistake.” I revel in reading Psalm 139:13-15 and placing my name in it: “For you created my (Nancy’s) inmost being, you knit me (Nancy) together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I (Nancy)I am fearfully and wonderfully made. My (Nancy’s) frame was not hidden from you when I (Nancy) was made in the secret place, when I(Nancy) was woven together in the depths of the earth.”

God is personal to me. I was profoundly impacted by a personal relationship with God when I was 17 years old. I showed up at a different church one Sunday night chasing a boy but found God instead! I saw for the first time that Christianity wasn’t about going to church or even doing the right thing. It was about a relationship with Christ. That rocked my world! Knowing Jesus is everything to me! He has been my anchor amidst all the rockiness of life. He has helped me through so many insecurities, challenges, and fears. I can’t imagine life without Christ.

God loves my prayers to Him! I continue to be blown away that the God of the universe delights in communicating with little ole’ me. I’ve come to realize that I need to pray about pretty much everything. My need for God is great and He has extended to me, his child, this gift of prayer. Why wouldn’t I want to pray like crazy? I know God answers prayer. I know He cares. Prayer is my lifeline to my Father in heaven!

God helps me in the pains of life. Life is full of pain. If I were to ask you your greatest pains in life, it wouldn’t be hard to come up with pain that has etched your soul. Pain has a way of getting to us all. Some people try to pick up their bootstraps and just gut it out. Because God loves me, I can trust Him for all my feelings, circumstances, struggles, doubts, and pains. And you can too! Although my circumstance may or may not change, I can look to God to hold me securely in the difficulties. Jesus has walked me through a lot of pain in life! He pays attention. He comforts. He doesn’t ask any of us to keep our pains to ourselves but gives us guidance: “Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for us.” (1 Peter 5:7) I’m so grateful for His constant care for me through life’s struggles.

God gives me perfect peace.  I’m blown away by the peace of God amid the frailties of life. He is the giver of perfect peace. He asks me not to worry about ONE thing but in everything pray to Him. When I do that, I’m fine. The peace of God is like the beautiful flowing Guadelupe River… so calming, so wonderful, so glorious.

Take a Listen: 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n0FBb6hnwTo

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.

Uncertainty

I guess there’s no perfect time to get COVID. While at an ENT appointment for an infection, I get a text from my husband, Ben. He was going to get tested for COVID. In a flurry, the ENT office quickly masked up and gave me a test. I was positive. Ben was too.

Life changed quickly. Appointments for the week were wiped off the calendar. Zoom sessions ensued. Ben had his men’s retreat this past weekend and obviously couldn’t go. His biggest week of the year at the university was this week as they prepare for senior projects.

You and I both know that COVID has affected more than just schedules and sniffles. COVID has changed lives. COVID has brought grief, heartache, fear, and sadness to so many. The mental health ramifications of these last few years will go on for years.

I think as much as I like to have my plans in place, this week taught me, once again, that nothing is certain. I really prefer to be certain. I like things to go as planned.

I was reading this morning in Oswald Chambers. Chambers was a past YMCA leader who was commissioned by the Y to go to Egypt to minister to troops from Australia and New Zealand during WWI. In "My Utmost for His Highest" (April 29) Chambers was talking about this very thing, uncertainty vs. certainty, and how we look at uncertainty as a bad thing. He writes:

“Certainty is the mark of the common-sense life; gracious uncertainty is the mark of the spiritual life. To be certain of God means that we are uncertain in all our ways, we do not know what a day may bring forth. This is generally said with a sigh of sadness, it should be rather an expression of breathless expectation. We are uncertain of the next step, but we are certain of God.”

Chambers points us back to Matthew 18:3 which says “Truly I tell you, unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.” Don’t you love how Jesus sees little children? They don’t care about their own status! A child doesn’t know what’s happening next. A child humbly trusts. Oh, how we can learn from a child, but how much more can we learn from Jesus' love, which is certain!

As Chambers says “We are not uncertain of God, but uncertain of what He is going to do next. But, when we are rightly related to God, life is full of spontaneous, joyful uncertainty and expectance.” Ben and I have looked expectantly for God's plan when our plans went awry.

It breaks my heart that my husband can’t go on his men’s retreat. I’m sad that in the craziest week at the university, he can’t be with his students. I'm pretty bummed to feel so weak as I deal with an infection and COVID. But, I can certainly trust in the certainty of God and his love. 

Nancy Abbott is the Chaplain of the YMCA of Greater San Antonio.